As we know from the previous post, China's one child policy draws the nation and its government to take notice in elderly care. The problem is the lack of government fundings and systems that cause care-taking pressure transferred to the children's lives. In the past, filial piety was a guarantee that elderlies will be taken care of regardless. Now, it's becoming more and more challenging. The next logical step is caring for the elderlies through other institutions, such as nursing homes. It is not just expensive to care for elderlies, but it also troublesome for these children. However, the problem is that many senior citizens aren't open to the idea of being put in nursing homes. The challenge sometimes aren't financial, but family problems coming back to filial piety. Some elderlies are starting to see the benefits of being in nursing homes. Zhang, a resident at a nursing home feels like he belong there more.
"My children go to work early at 6am and come back home at 6pm. It can get very lonely," he said. "They like to eat at McDonalds, KFC, and other fast food but I don't."
We can tell that elderlies are lonely when they know that they're 'different' from the children. They need a suitable space for them to continue life successfully.
Aside from the issue of elderlies coping at old age, the government should take notice in its institutions. By building better nursing homes and providing facilities such as health care system for the aged, and establishing social support systems that enables elderlies to have a stronger network of support. They don't have to completely rely on their children. Instead, they can look for support from friendships with other elders.